Lesson 6: Mary Visits Her Children

When Jesus was on the cross, Mary and the apostle John were there with him. From the cross, Jesus looked at them and said to John, “Behold your Mother.” (John 19:26-27) With these words, Mary became the mother of us all, and like any good mom, she loves her children very much. Every now and then, she even visits us! This lesson is going to focus on two places she has done so: Lourdes and Guadalupe.


Introduction Video and Opening Prayer


Go Deeper


Lourdes and the Immaculate Conception

December 8th is the Solemnity of the Immaculate Conception. A solemnity is the highest form of celebration in the Catholic Church. All Sundays are considered solemnities as well, because on Sunday we remember what happened on Easter – the highest of all solemnities!

Many people mistakenly believe the Immaculate Conception refers to Jesus being conceived in Mary’s womb by the Holy Spirit. In fact, it actually refers to Mary being conceived by her mother, Saint Anne (Jesus’ grandma!) We say Mary’s conception was immaculate, because she was conceived without original sin.

The Miraculous Medal references the Immaculate Conception. Do you know someone who wears one?

Original sin is something we are all born with as a result of Adam and Eve sinning. Because they fell from God’s grace by eating the Fruit of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, mankind has struggled with sin ever since. Baptism forgives original sin, but we still struggle with temptation which often leads us to commit other sins. This is why we need Jesus as our savior!

“I am the Immaculate Conception”

Mary’s words to St. Bernadette.

When Mary appeared to St. Bernadette in Lourdes in 1858, she identified herself by saying “I am the Immaculate Conception.” Mary did this so the priests would know Bernadette was telling the truth. You see, Bernadette, a young peasant girl, had no way of knowing what the phrase meant. The Catholic Church had only officially declared Mary was conceived without sin four years earlier in 1854. When the priests heard Bernadette say what the lady’s name was, they were amazed – this young girl had truly seen Mary, the Mother of God.

In the Grotto, where St. Bernadette received her visions of Mary, there is a statue depicting Mary as she appeared to her.

The words beneath her say “Que soy era immaculada concepciou.”

That is how you say “I am the Immaculate Conception” in the French dialect St. Bernadette spoke.

By Dennis Jarvis from Halifax, Canada – France-002009 – Our Lady of Lourdes, CC BY-SA 2.0, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?curid=38269784

To this day, pilgrims from all over the world come to visit Lourdes. When we use the word pilgrim this way, we mean someone who is traveling for a religious purpose, to a holy place so they can grow closer to God.

Many people go to Lourdes in the hope that by bathing in the waters of the spring St. Bernadette discovered, they will be healed of any physical ailments they are suffering. Over the years, 7000 healings have been reported, with 70 of them being officially declared miracles by the Church! Read more about these miraculous healings.


Our Lady of Guadalupe: Patroness of the Americas

On December 12th, the Church celebrates the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe. A feast day is a celebration in the Church that gives special recognition to a particular saint or event, but is one step lower in importance than a solemnity. A feast day is still a very important celebration though! Learn more about solemnities and feast days.

You will learn more of the story surrounding Our Lady of Guadalupe in this lesson’s featured saint section. However, it is a good idea to learn a bit about why she is considered the patroness of the Americas.

A patron saint is a saint associated with a particular group or cause. Patron saints pray to God in a special way for the cause with which they are associated. This is called intercession. Because Our Lady of Guadalupe is the patroness of the Americas, that means she is the special intercessor for everyone living in North America, Central America, and South America.

What makes Mary’s appearance as Our Lady of Guadalupe so special to the Americas? One answer would be the incredible number of people who converted to Catholicism following her appearance to St. Juan Diego in 1531. Because Mary’s image on the tilma resembled an Aztec princess, 9 million Aztec Indians converted to Catholicism in only 7 years following the apparition! It was one of the biggest conversions in the Church’s history.

“After the apparition, many accepted faith in Jesus Christ.”


Do I have to believe in Lourdes and Guadalupe?

Public vs. Private Revelation.


Nowadays, some people have a hard time believing in miracles. Other people don’t need miracles to help them have faith, it just comes naturally to them. There are also other people who come to believe by witnessing miracles. (Jesus converted many people this way!)

It is undoubtable that millions of people have come to believe in Jesus and the Catholic Church through the miracles that occurred at Lourdes and Guadalupe. This is part of the reason the Church has declared them to be worthy of belief. That being said, no Catholic is required by the Church to believe in these apparitions, although there are plenty of reasons to believe!

The reason Catholics do not have to believe in Lourdes and Guadalupe is because of a difference between public and private revelation. Public revelation is something revealed by God to the whole Church that has to be believed. Examples of public revelation include Christ’s presence in the Eucharist, the Holy Trinity, and The 10 Commandments.

Private revelation is something God has revealed to an individual like St. Bernadette or St. Juan Diego. The Church declares it is “worthy of belief” but does not require us to. That being said, God can allow these revelations for our benefit, while we do not have to believe in them, it is to our advantage if we do. Lourdes and Guadalupe are great examples of this. By practicing these devotions, we know we will grow closer to God.

One final note: While the apparitions in Lourdes are a matter of private revelation and therefore optional for the faithful, Mary’s immaculate conception is part of the public revelation and must be believed. To learn more about the Immaculate Conception, watch the video by Fr. Mike Schmitz in this lesson’s More to Explore section.


Featured Saints

This lesson’s featured saints are St. Bernadette and St. Juan Diego. Mary appeared to them both in the apparitions we have learned about this lesson. Below are two movies about their lives. We strongly encourage you to watch one or both of them if you have time. Each movie is about half an hour long.

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“Bernadette: The Princess of Lourdes”

“Juan Diego: Messenger of Guadalupe”

If you choose not to watch the videos above, please listen to these brief saint biographies from Franciscan Media:

https://www.franciscanmedia.org/saint-of-the-day/saint-bernadette-soubirous

https://www.franciscanmedia.org/saint-of-the-day/saint-juan-diego


Let Us Pray

This lesson’s prayer challenge is to choose one of the following to prayers and add it to your Destined Journal. Once you have done so, decorate it however you want. In the middle ages, monks worked tirelessly to decorate the pages of their prayer books. These books are known as “illuminated manuscripts.” Here is what they looked like:

Choose one of these prayers to print and decorate:


Live It Out Activities

This lesson’s featured activity is a craft which will allow you to make your own tilma, just like St. Juan Diego’s. Use the two buttons below to learn everything you need to make your tilma!

You can also explore some other Marian apparitions, one of which is in Wisconsin! Use this worksheet to help you keep track of what you learn while exploring the article below:


More to Explore

Check out this jaw-dropping article about the miraculous qualities of the tilma.

Learn more about the Immaculate Conception:

Learn more about Our Lady of Guadalupe:

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burdickcrew
burdickcrew
10 months ago

We were Team Guadalupe, we loved that the vision of Mary appearing not only was closer to where we live, but it had such a large impact on the community bringing them together through catholicisim.

raufamily
raufamily
10 months ago

team Lourdes
we are fascinated by the many miracles & healings @the springs & grotto. we would love to visit!

BlushFamily
BlushFamily
10 months ago

We were Team Lourdes. The kids unanimously voted. They were moved by a visit to the grotto at Notre Dame (in South Bend, IN) in the past on a family trip and we would love to visit the grotto in France in the future.

kucabkids
kucabkids
10 months ago

Andrew, grade 1, picked Team Guadalupe due to the colors Mary was wearing! 🙂

oswandel
oswandel
10 months ago

We were Team Lourdes.

Last edited 10 months ago by oswandel
oswandel
oswandel
10 months ago

here is a picture of our tilma

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kurtinaitisfamily
kurtinaitisfamily
10 months ago

We are team Lourdes. We were so moved by how many people have been healed from their ailments while visiting there. We would love to visit.

alellis
alellis
10 months ago

Team Guadalupe here! We think it’s amazing how many Aztec Indians converted to Catholicism after seeing her image and in such a short period of time, too!

turel
turel
10 months ago

We’re team Lourdes. It’s amazing how many people were healed while visiting.

1family
1family
10 months ago

We are team Lourdes. We are interested in how many people were healed when they visited. We also found the information about St. Bernadette’s life interesting because she lived a short life (compared to today) but she was a really holy person.

TeamGriffen
TeamGriffen
10 months ago

Team Guadalupe. Hands down fresh flowers in December!

LaCombefamily
LaCombefamily
9 months ago

We are a Guadalupe family. My daughter loved that she grew roses in winter to prove it was her. Thanks for the interesting lesson!

doggettm
doggettm
9 months ago

We picked Team Guadalupe. The kids even wanted to create a mini Tilma activity and they included their creation in the Destiny Book. 🙂

Lori Buza Smith
Lori Buza Smith
9 months ago

Thank you for showing your personal videos. That must have been amazing to see in person.

sassakd
sassakd
9 months ago

We were team Lourdes. We enjoyed this story the most.

BlanckFamily
BlanckFamily
9 months ago

We were team Guadalupe because we liked the miracles or the “proof” that she was real as he brought the roses back and they made the picture on his tilma.

HamiltonFamily
HamiltonFamily
9 months ago

Most of us were amazed by the number of healings that took place in the spring in Lourdes. Our youngest is very interested in Mexican/Hispanic culture and voted for Guadalupe. So we printed both prayers for our Journal to decorate.

prestonw8243
prestonw8243
8 months ago

I am Team Guadalupe because there are not many miracles that happened in or near the Americas, miracles normally happened in Europe, or in Jesus’s case, the Middle East. The fact that this miracle turned many Native Americans and even non-Catholic Europeans to Catholicism, and in this area, to me out weighs the fact that Lourdes has had 70 healing miracles.

MParsons
MParsons
8 months ago

Madelyn is team Lourdes! She really enjoyed the video of Bernadette: The princess of Lourdes and was very interested in miracles.

Kailyn0927
Kailyn0927
7 months ago

Team Lourdes we are fascinated by all the miracles that happens and healings

huttoco
huttoco
6 months ago

We loved the lesson! We decided to be Team Lourdes. We liked learning how some people can get miracles performed on them and would love to see it ourselves one day!

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